Solo Female Travel Series – Part 3

Solo Female Travel Series – Part 3

Adoration 4 Adventure’s solo female travel series – part three.

A three part series including tales from women all over the world sharing their experiences, inspiration and tips for solo female travel. This is part three of the series, read on to part one and part two.


Solo female traveler - Danielle Desir. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Danielle DesirSolo Female Travel Tale: Danielle Desir 

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For as long as I could remember, visiting Paris was at the top of my bucket list. I dreamed of the Eiffel Tower endlessly and so I saved all throughout college and graduate school to make my dreams come true. When the time came to book my first adult trip to Paris in 2014, I found myself traveling solo.

Solo travel wasn’t something that I envisioned doing early on as an adult, but I refused to postpone my trip for the sake of finding a companion. After reading inspiring travel blogs about how solo travel to Paris was safe and fun, I booked my flights and packed my bags.

The most surprising thing about solo travel is how many people notice that I’m traveling alone. People are always so curious about my story and they go out of their way to praise me for being bold and adventurous. My tip for other solo travelers would be to book group tours every other day. Group tours are informational and allow you socialize without putting yourself out there too much. In 2016, I am traveling solo to Iceland, and I can’t wait for all the new adventures in store.

Danielle in Paris. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Danielle Desir

Danielle in Paris


Solo female travler - Daniela Nastase. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Daniela NastaseSolo Female Travel Tale: Daniela Nastase

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Throw back a few years, at the end of my first year of study abroad in England. That was the crucial moment when I decided I needed a hot break from rainy England. And as an addicted “travallete” continuously seeking new adventures, I thought it would be a good experience to travel to a new continent – America.  It was my first solo trip and I spent my 20th birthday on a beach in Maryland, a few hours away from New York.

I had three goals for this trip:

  1. Escape cold weather – checked: temperatures over 40 degrees Celsius every day
  2. Visit New York – checked: at the end of the summer I went to a concert in MetLife Stadium and screamed my lungs out along to Eminem
  3. Escape my shyness – checked: studying journalism and being afraid to approach new people is a dead end for a career; I worked as a hostess for a popular restaurant and by the end of the summer I was able to small talk with anyone: from ex prisoners to typical American moms.

The best part of travelling solo is that you are not actually alone, it`s just a social perception. On my way to the United States, on each connection I had, I met at least one person to make jokes with and keep me entertained. I remember this boy who was taking the same flight as I was to cross the Atlantic. Ten hours seemed like nothing in his company. We talked about exes and why stars have 5 points. On top of that, I discovered he was from my hometown! What were the odds? We’re still in contact on Facebook.

Making new friends. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Daniela Nastase

Making new friends

It has taken me by surprise, the amount of international people I have met. Everyone I know tells me how dangerous it is to travel and how I shouldn’t travel at all, not to mention alone. But on the beach of Maryland the international life was rising and I realized how wrong this perception was. I know media plays a huge part in influencing this “dangerous” view over the world, but this is actually the outcome WE want. In 2014, a Russian news site brought positive news stories for a day as a social experiment. The result was that the website lost two-thirds of its normal readership.

I’m not saying bad things never happen, but that it could happen anytime – not just when you are travelling. A few weeks back there was an armed robbery in a small shop nearby, where I go often. I could have been in there that day. Or tomorrow a bus might hit me. Danger is all around us, but that doesn’t mean we should live our life in fear. The fact that I travel and I return home unharmed every time, influences people from my circle to have second thoughts.

My tip to other solo female travelers would be to have a story! Now every time my Mom complains that I shouldn’t go alone, I tell her how I made it to the United States and back without a scratch.

Daniela in New York City. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Daniela Nastase

Daniela in New York City


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Solo Female Travel Series – Part 2

Solo Female Travel Series – Part 2

Adoration 4 Adventure’s solo female travel series – part two.

A three part series including tales from women all over the world sharing their experiences, inspiration and tips for solo female travel. This is part two of the series, read on to part one and part three.


Solo Female Traveler: Stephanie Mayo. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Stephanie MayoSolo Female Travel Tale: Stephanie Mayo

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To say travel changed my life is an understatement, but solo travel shaped the person I am today. Through solo travel I found a truer conviction of who I was, what I liked and didn’t like, and what made me happy.

I took my first solo trip for my birthday a few years ago to Charlotte, NC. I figured it was a safe place, there was no language barrier and it was only for 5 days, it would be a taste of solo travel and I could see if it was for me. Well, it was one of the best decisions I ever made!

Just a few short months later I was going on another solo trip to the US West Coast, this time for a month! And just this past summer I returned to Europe, but this time solo and for my longest trip ever – 3 months! The more I travel solo the more confident I am and I realize even in those times of uncertainty I can figure things out.

Stephanie in Lisbon

Stephanie in Lisbon.

The biggest things that surprised me about travelling solo was just how heightened my senses became, colours were more vibrant, food taste richer and feelings more magical. Another thing that surprised me was just how amazing people are, whether I was asking for directions or striking up a conversation about the city with a local, if you give your best to others it’s astounding how kind, welcoming and helpful people can be. I think every female should try solo travel at least once in her life – it is amazingly rewarding!

Muir Woods. Photo credit: A4A guest writer: Stephanie Mayo

Muir Woods.

My tips for solo female travelers – Be yourself and don’t worry about what others think! Not only will you probably never see them again, but do you really want to think back on your experience later and think ‘I wish I had’? Also, don’t be afraid to ask for help! Not everyone is bad or out to get you. There are tons of amazing people across this world and if you give them a chance your faith in humanity will be rewarded.


Solo Female Traveler: Allie Feru. Photo Credit: A4A guest writer - Allie FeruSolo Female Travel Tale: Allie Feru

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I had always wanted to travel by myself but had been too scared to do it. I followed many travel blogs and felt so inspired by those fearless people who would just book a ticket and hit the road.

Then last summer, I got an email from an Indian friend, who I met while living in New York, telling me his big day had come and inviting me to his wedding in Mumbai.

There it was, my opportunity to take that leap. But in India??

My thoughts started tumbling: Would I be able to talk to people? Did anyone speak English there? How would I book my tickets and hostels? What would I eat? Isn’t the Indian cuisine really spicy? And I hate spicy. Isn’t it dangerous for a woman, alone, in India?? And a white woman! I had heard so many stories in the news.

Fears popped up.

At that time I was working in Berlin. One cold autumn morning, while riding my bike to the office, I thought about my first day in that company. That same itinerary but such a different feeling! In that moment I was relaxed (for once I wasn’t late), was happy to meet my colleagues and hopeful to encounter nice clients – all positive feelings.

Unlike my first day of work – that time it was pure panic! I had a lot of fears: Would I be able to understand the German they speak? Would I learn quickly enough? And what if the boss doesn’t like me? Living again through that first day’s thoughts and feelings made me realize how my fears were not about that particular job or the solo trip… it is about the unknown.

When we don’t know how it is, we fear it. That same day, in my lunch break, I booked my flight to India.

I decided to accept my fears and start thinking that something new is always scary but there is no reason to be afraid. If you believe it, everything is going to be alright. I convinced myself that people would help me, that they would understand English and that in the worst case…. if it wasn’t for me, I could always hop on a flight home.

And guess what? It was the best time of my life. It was the best decision to book that flight! I got the chance to go to an amazing Indian wedding, to live with my friends’ family and visit all the southwest cost of India, exploring Goa and Kerala.

Allie at an Indian wedding. Photo Credit: A4A guest writer - Allie Feru

Allie at an Indian wedding

When you are on your own you are not distracted by talking with someone so you enjoy it ten times more. When you travel alone (which I became addicted to) people get in touch with you, you are open to them and they open to you. I am shy so I don’t walk to someone and start a conversation, but they do it with you! If you are in need, they help you! It warms up your heart.

I did struggle a bit with the spicy food but it’s part of the game, right? Not everything can be perfect.

India was my first big step out of my comfort zone and since then I just can’t stop travelling on my own. Do you have fear? Me too. Can you do it? Yes, you can too!

And if you need any help or questions – you have me, Chantell (and the other solo female travelers in this series) who are more then happy to support you. Give it a try!

Allie and a friend meeting the locals. Photo Credit: A4A guest writer - Allie Feru

Allie and a friend meeting the locals


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Solo Female Travel Series – Part 1

Solo Female Travel Series – Part 1

Adoration 4 Adventure’s solo female travel series – part one.

A three part series including tales from women all over the world sharing their experiences, inspiration and tips for solo female travel. This is part one of the series, read on to part two and part three.


Solo female traveler - Chantell CollinsSolo female travel tale: Chantell Collins

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I didn’t plan my first solo trip. It happened the best way possible – spontaneously.

It was January 2011 and I had just finished up a group tour of the U.S.A., which had landed me in New York City. Despite having just traveled for a month by bus, all the way from Los Angeles, I was completely energized and wanting more.

With less than 24 hours until my flight back to Brisbane, I changed my departure to a month later and then booked a bus to Boston. I had never imagined that I would travel alone. It seemed much too scary and risky – how would I manage it all on my own in a foreign country?

However it was happening. Without a second thought, I threw my over-sized suitcase onto the bus and was transported to Boston, Massachusetts. I couchsurfed with Chris, a photographer from LA,  who also had a friend staying from San Francisco, Miguel.  Both became dear friends of mine after we celebrated St Paddy’s Day in true Irish fashion.

St Paddy's Day in Boston

St Paddy’s Day in Boston

After Boston, I then traveled to Chicago, Seattle, Portland and San Francisco. I was never alone for more than twenty four hours. Whether it was meeting people at the hostel, through couchsurfing or just randomly on the street. Even when dining out alone, I would be invited to join a nearby group table.

The people I met along the way would often give me recommendations and contacts for the next city I was visiting. When I arrived in Seattle, I met up with another of Chris’ friends, Kristina, a lovely Russian girl who was living and working in Seattle as an Au Pair. Kristina and I hit it off instantly and hung out while I was in town. We are still friends, almost five years later, and see each other whenever possible.

Downtown Seattle

Downtown Seattle

Since that first solo trip in the U.S.A., I feel confident to travel to any place by myself because I know that I won’t be alone for long and that the world is full of incredibly kind and good people.


Solo Female Traveler - Toni Frazer. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Toni FrazerSolo female travel tale: Toni Frazer

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For as long as I could remember, I always traveled with someone when I went on a holiday.

But, when my five year relationship ended when I was 22; I knew I needed a massive change. I had always felt a huge pull towards visiting the United States, and now was the time to make it happen. It was my ultimate dream having never left the shores of Australia; and I had no reason not to make it a reality now.

So that’s exactly what I did.

At the time, I had already applied for a 1 year post-graduate diploma to use my Bachelor Of Arts Degree to become a teacher. But, when I didn’t initially get into the course, I applied to work at a US Summer Camp instead; which was a sign that this was where I needed to be, as I eventually did get accepted into my diploma course, and was able to defer it to the following year.

Funny how things happen like that right?

To me, this was a serendipitous moment that would be a turning point in my life; where travel became a major priority and solo travel became a defining characteristic of who I would become over the remainder of my 20s.

Upon acceptance to the Summer Camp program for Summer 2008, I was hired by a camp outside Philadelphia called Julian Krinsky. It was a non-traditional camp that had us living on a university campus and our campers studying school-based subjects and sports like Golf and Tennis. It was exactly what I needed. Plus, now I was able to pretend that I was living the US college life in a dorm room, so dreams were coming true every day.

Kirsty and I at Camp

Toni and a friend at camp.

After finishing my 8 weeks at camp, I left the bubble of life there for my first solo travel adventure. I headed to New York City first and ticked off all the touristy things. But it was here that I was able to begin what has become a major passion of mine, especially now, 8 years later in visiting filming locations I’d waited my whole life to see.

I am a film and tv nut.

New York had the main things: ‘Sex and the City’ and ‘Breakfast at Tiffany’s’ to name a few locations; but it was the remaining places across the States that were the cherry on this sundae. I solo travelled to so many cities in my one month of travel and it was just amazing! Whether it was tracking down Dawson Leery’s House in Wilmington, North Carolina from the tv series ‘Dawson’s Creek’ (I even scored a tour inside the real house!), the ‘Home Alone’ house in Winnetka, Illinois, Rydell High from the classic ‘Grease’ in Venice, California or the ‘Mrs Doubtfire’, ‘Full House’ or ‘Party Of Five’ Houses in San Francisco; the epitome of all of this was definitely staying at the Mountain Lake Resort in Pembroke, Virginia. The hotel that is famous for being the setting for the ultimate classic ‘Dirty Dancing’.

Carrie's Apartment Sex and the city. Photo credit: A4A guest writer - Toni Frazer

Carrie’s Apartment Sex and the city.

This trip was a real dream come true. It showed me I was independent, courageous and above all strong enough to make my own dreams come true without needing anyone else.

It has led me here, to right now: an Australian expat who has lived in London, traveled through most of Europe, the UK, New Zealand, Canada and most proudly, 43 states of the USA.

Since 2008, and this amazing trip, I have returned to the US 7 times, knocking off many more filming locations and dream destinations. I am still single, but I am so proud of myself for taking control of my life since then.

If I want to experience a place, or see a filming location, I know I can do it. That’s the best lesson I have learnt from all of this: if you want something bad enough, you find a way to make it happen.

It is possible.

2016 sees me solo and heading to Canada  on a working holiday and what an adventure that will be.

Maybe this is where my solo travels take on a partner?

If not, it will be ok. I will always have me to travel with.


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How I traveled to 30 countries before I turned 30

How I traveled to 30 countries before I turned 30

This is my story of how I traveled to 30 countries before I turned 30. And how you can work towards achieving you dreams however big or small!

 

Goal setting

At the age of 29 I decided that I wanted to do something big for my 30th birthday.

I had heard about “30 before 30” and was excited for the challenge. I knew that this would be particularly difficult for me as I had only a year left until I turned 30 and at that time my country count was at about 16.

Map of countries visited - 30 before 30

Planning

I put a plan into place in order to achieve my goal before the deadline of 4 August 2015.

I decided to take two month-long trips to South East Asia and Europe. These are great places to travel as you can cover a lot of ground in a shorter amount of time.

However, not all international trips need to be long. I also took quick trips that were a week or less to New Zealand and Bali (from Brisbane), Nicaragua, Costa Rica and the Caribbean (from Dallas).

Budgeting

In addition to cutting back on initial transit time, another benefit of taking longer trips is that it can be more cost-effective. Especially, if you are living far away from the destinations you want to visit. This can cut down the cost of taking multiple flights to multiple destinations.

Next to flights, accommodation is one of the biggest costs associated with travelling. Central America, South East Asia and eastern European countries are all great places to travel in if you are traveling on a budget.

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Overview

In the end, I managed to visit my 30th country just four days before my 30th birthday!

Celebrating my 30th birthday in New York City - Chantell Collins

Celebrating my 30th birthday in New York City – Chantell Collins

The majority of the 30 countries I visited were within 4 months and on 5 separate trips, one of which I had taken previously:

  • 32 day camping tour of western Europe (June – July 2009)
  • 1 month backpacking around South East Asia (January 2015)
  • 1 week Caribbean cruise (May 2015)
  • 5 weeks solo backpacking around Europe (June – July 2015)
  • 1 week solo backpacking in Central America (July 2015)

30 countries before 30

Here is the list of the countries I visited, including the cities I stopped in. Some of these countries I have visited on more than one occasion, however I have included only the most recent or relevant visits.

June to July 2009 – Group tour of Europe

1. France: Paris, St Emillion, Arles and Nice.

2. Monaco: Monte Carlo casino.

3. Austria: Austria.

4. Liechtenstein

5. Switzerland: Jungfraujoch mountain and Lucerne.

6. Netherlands: Amsterdam.

Paris, Jungfraujoch Mountain and Monte Carlo Casino

Paris, Jungfraujoch Mountain and Monte Carlo Casino

7. Indonesia: One week vacation with friends in May 2010 to Bali and Gili Trawangan.

8. United States of America: Lived in New York City, NY from September 2011 to September 2012, Wilmington, DE from October to December 2013 and Dallas, TX from May to September 2015.

9. Brazil: Lived in Sao Paulo from September 2012 to March 2013.

Rio de Janeiro - Chantell Collins

Rio de Janeiro – Chantell Collins

January 2015 – Backpacking South East Asia

10. Thailand: Bangkok, Chang Mai and Krabi.

11. Malaysia: Kuala Lumpur.

12. Cambodia: Siem Reap, Phnom Penh and Sihanoukville.

13. Laos: Vientiane.

14. Singapore: Singapore.

15. New Zealand: Four day road trip to Auckland, Rotorua and Waitomo in March 2015.

Siem Reap, Chang Mai and Singapore

Siem Reap, Chang Mai and Singapore

May 2015 – Cruise of the Caribbean

16.  Jamaica: Montego Bay.

17. Cayman Islands: Grand Cayman.

18. Mexico: Cozumel.

June to July 2015 – Backpacking in Europe

19. Scotland: Edinburgh and Glen Coe.

20. England: London, Salisbury and Bath.

21. Belgium: Antwerp.

22. Germany: Cologne, Hamburg and Berlin.

23. Poland: Warsaw.

24. Czech Republic: Prague.

25. Hungary: Budapest.

26. Slovenia: Ljubljana.

27. Italy: Udine and Venice.

28. Spain: Madrid.

Glen Coe, London, Hamburg and Prague

Glen Coe, London, Hamburg and Prague

July 2015 – Backpacking in Central America

29. Nicaragua: July 2015 – Granada and Managua.

30. Costa Rica: July 2015 – Liberia.

Granada, Nicaragua - Chantell Collins

Granada, Nicaragua


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